Daily writing prompt

What was the hardest personal goal you’ve set for yourself?

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The hardest personal goals that I have set for myself are the ones I have currently;

• completely removing myself from my current relationship with my partner
• continue to be a Stay At Home Mom, raise my kids without missing a beat
• Secure an income by blogging
• Find a beautiful apartment/ condo for my kids and I by the end of next year

The Exhaust of Painful Memories

Shutting out of a current relationship that brings me so far down in my mental. Never any words to get them to understand that you need space and distance from them to bring your joy back up. Realizing that this person brings you nothing but misery and defeat, yet they want to keep holding you down without realizing they are literally holding you down. I know it’s a mirrored reflection of who I am but it didn’t start like that, little by little we started carving out this low. Handing me the tools that I kept reaching out for without realizing that they were the tools to tear the relationship down instead of building it up. We are too far deep in this whole & the hope of it turning it around together is completely gone and unimaginable. So I’m taking it upon myself to turn my life around on my own with the people, FAMILY & FRIENDS, that I can count and can go to with no judgment or unnecessary opinions.

The Reality of Children

Staying a positive light force for your children when your world within you is completely upside down is a superpower that I don’t even know how to explain. It’s almost like they are your lifeline and pumping power back into you. Being with them without having people present that are no good for you makes a huge difference in how they are raised. Taking that step knowing to let go and free yourself from the shackles of this horrid relationship is self care. It’s good to give up on the things that do not serve you in any way, shape, or form. Don’t let the abusers tell you otherwise. Feel that in your gut, let that determine what’s best for you and your soul, because only you can determine which way to go for a better outcome.